Wednesday, February 17, 2016

Love-relationship kind of advice 🙇🏻

Songs: Stomach tied in knots, don't you ever forget me and with ears to see and eyes to hear ((acoustic version)) // sleeping with sirens


Assalamu'alaikum, ola pipol ✋🏻
So kalini entry aku nak straighforward ja tulis kot. That's what we prefer kan? Takda drama takda bengkang bengkok terus straight dengan apa yang kita nak sampaikan. So yes this time I'd love to write about being matured and act professional when you're in relationship. I faham perasaan orang perempuan yang insecure dengan perempuan lain tetambah bila perempuan tu rapat dengan boyfriend awak. Ye awak, saya pun perempuan, saya faham dan saya pernah rasa benda macamtu.

Saya tak salahkan awak nak jealous, benda tu memang fitrah dalam diri manusia. Tapi saya cuma harap instead of awak serabutkan diri awak dengan rasa jealous tu lebih baik awak terus tanya minta explanation dari boyfriend pasal budak perempuan yang dia rapat tu. Because one day, trust me you guys need to collaborate and cooperate with opposite gender, so if you haven't tried to control your anger and jealousy by now, awak boleh yakin hubungan awak boleh pegi jauh? Bukan saya nak takutkan awak tapi I really hope from the bottom of my heart, please jangan besarkan benda kecil. Benda boleh bawa bincang, settlekan elok elok. Social media isn't the best place for you to show your weaknesses and problems.

 Semua tu terletak atas diri awak juga, serious no any kind of forcement input here, I wont force you to accept my opinions and yes I respect yours. But please remember this, kita ni student, banyak kerja, assignments, tutorials, and other side snacks yang lecturers bagi. So takda siapa larat nak burden themselves dengan masalah yang awak simpan dalam hati tu. Kalau awak tak luahkan, awak rasa dia akan tau ke? Lelaki ni dia ngok sikit, kalau awak tak terus terang memang sampai ke sudah awak makan hati. Tambah bila dia dah busy dengan kerja lain, dia harapkan awak untuk jangan serabutkan dia dah. Yet you try to give him a good company when he needed. Dengar segala masalah dia memalam, apa yang dia dah lalui sepanjang haritu. Takda siapa suka drama swasta atau awam ni sebab memang sampai jadi sinetron pun dia tak habis. So lebih baik luah je apa awak rasa tu. Tapi biar beradab dan kena dengan cara. And last but not least, saya langsung tak paksa sesiapa untuk terima cara ni, bonne nuit. If he really loves you, he will accept you for who you were and are and he will cherish you no matter what. So don't ever doubting his love towards you. Loyal, honest and trust are the most important thing whether you are in relationship, friendship, scholarship or any kind of ship *pon pon* acah bunyi kapal titanic. And relax, bak kata yuna;
"Real women don't steal from other women. We get our own." 
May Allah bless and stay happy lovelies! (: 






Maseh dah dtg nengok n singgah shini :*

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